Monday, July 3, 2017

KiwiCo Crates Review

Fisher and Willow love doing crafts, STEM projects, and building things but between working full time, getting the kids to therapy and doctors appointments, Cub Scouts, swimming lessons, and on and on I don't often have the time or want to put the effort in to perusing Pinterest, getting to the craft and home improvement stores for supplies to attempt a project that is likely to either fail or we realize that we forgot something and need to make a store run in mid project to finish.

I have seen the advertisements for Tinker Crates on Facebook and decided to try it out by getting each kid a crate.  I love that they age appropriate crates for each of my kid's ages.  So that way they felt like they each got something special.   I ordered Fisher (7 years old) the Kiwi Crate and Willow (3 year olds) the Koala Crate.  I placed the order last week and both crates were delivered together 5 days after I purchased them.  It worked out perfectly that they came on a Saturday that I felt like crap and didn't feel like doing our normal pool, park, run off energy activities.   


Fisher's  crate was themed "Arcade"  and when he read that on the box he got very excited to dig in.   He created his own arcade game - first he put together a wooden claw/grabber thingy.  It had a lot of pieces but I was glad to see that there was VERY clear directions on what to do and plenty of good illustrations.  I helped him just a little bit - but for the most part he did it all himself.  The quality of the wooden claw is actually really good and he is quite proud of his creation.  He has been running around all weekend getting things with his grabber!  Next he made Pom-poms out of yarn.  Again everything he needed was included in the crate including little tools to make it simple.  Also included was a little magazine type book with things for Fisher to read, color, and ideas for more fun. This was the perfect combo of "tinkering/building" and crafts for Fisher.

Willow's crate was themed "rainbows" and included three crafts for her.  She made a stain-glass type window, an adorable rainbow pillow, and a tote bag that has rainbows.  Again there was very simple to follow directions and was a perfect crate of activities for a three year old.  She LOVED it and was very engaged and excited to show off her work.

We all really enjoyed the crates - the two kids because they were age appropriate, fun, engaging projects.  I loved it because it came with EVERYTHING  we needed.  So no searching through my house for anything or running to the store to grab a pipe cleaner.   Realistically this is the type of craft I can handle right now in my life.

Both kids are excited to get their next crates.    We chose to pay by the month to try it out - and they are $20/month and that includes shipping.  I would like to change it to a longer subscription which makes it a little cheaper if I have extra money laying around (Ha!).

I actually just ordered my two nieces each a crate for their birthday.  My niece Delaney is turning 6 so I ordered her a Kiwi Crate and my Niece Emerson just turned 11 so I ordered her the Doodle Crate which focuses on art and design.  I am looking forward to seeing what they make with their crates!

If you want to try your own crate ----I mean your kids...if you KIDS would like to try a crate use my referral link and get $10 off your first crate. So you can get a crate sent to your house for $10!

Monday, June 26, 2017

Copays, copays, copays

Some days are hard.  Today is one of those days.  I took F to a new physical therapist today for a new evaluation.  He has been in PT before but it is time again.  His endurance is low and it really effects his life.  He can't walk more than 10 or 15 minutes without experiencing pain and needing a break.  His core, hip, and leg muscles are weak and he is the master compensator so he uses other smaller muscles to compensate to get him from point A to point B.   It gets the job done but those muscles tire out quickly and then he starts having pain in his legs and feet.  We experience the world by walking for a bit and then he sits down to rest for a few minutes, we walk a little longer, and then he sits downs again.  We usually get there eventually.  It is his norm.  He doesn't complain or expect to be the first to anything.  Though it makes me sad to see him sitting down waiting for the pain to subside while watching other kids play, it doesn't seem to bother him too much.  Regardless I and his doctors agree that it is time to work on the endurance and see if the weak muscles can be strengthened.  
Today was the PT eval by a new PT which always makes me a little nervous.  You never know what you are going to get.  Luckily I really liked the PT and I think he has a good treatment plan.  He would like to see F three times/week for a month and have us do work at home each day for the month and then reevaluate.  I love the idea of "hitting it hard" and can't wait to see what happens.   Timing is good because F is out of school right now so we can really focus on his physical therapy.   He said that F functions exceptionally well for having as many weaknesses in as many muscles as he does.  And honestly that made me proud because we have worked SO HARD to keep F active when he would rather avoid many activities.  We take him swimming, go Pokémon hunting with Pokémon Go to encourage him to walk, jump on the trampoline, he rides his bike, we take him to parks to play, etc.   It is part of our daily lives to find an activity that he enjoys and encourage him to be active.   I know for a fact without our encouragement and dedication to him being active he would be in a much worse physical position.
But unfortunately my excitement about the gains he could make in the next month was quickly tempered by the realization of how many expensive it is.  Three copays a week.  On top of the copays we already pay for doctors appointments and prescriptions.  And oh yeah - F SHOULD be in both Occupational Therapy and Speech Therapy right now but we are taking a much needed sanity break from those.  And double OH YEAH - W recently had a speech evaluation and the speech therapist recommended SHE start speech therapy once a week.  If we had both kids in the therapy they have been recommended plus take F to the other appointments he has it will cost us  $280 a week with "good" insurance.  Insurance that I feel obligated to say I am so thankful for because I know that many people don't have the insurance I have.   And the thought of that terrifies me.  But at the same time it angers me that we are in the position we are in.  We planned, budgeted, and saved before having kids.    We had set aside an emergency fund for unforeseen medical bills.   That emergency fund was a drop in the bucket of the ongoing flow of bills. Medical "emergencies" don't usually drag out for eight years I guess.  So today is a hard day.  I know we do a lot and my God I know we have seen so much improvement over the years.  I couldn't be more proud of F.   But it is hard because I feel like money is keeping us back from providing him all the therapy he needs because we aren't talking about short term therapy.  We expect speech therapy to be needed for many years and his physiatrist thinks he will need physical therapy every time he grows significantly.   I just hate that I worry about the cost of everything because I feel that isn't fair to him at all.  So I sit here worried about the juggle.  I worry about the years to come.  And heaven forbid - what if I die?  We get insurance through my work.  I seriously worry about what my family would do for insurance if I were to die or couldn't work anymore.  I have considered looking into other states and wondered if F could qualify for assistance in other states.  I would leave the area I love if it meant my family had better health coverage.   I have fantasized about moving to another country where healthcare is a right.  I seriously can't imagine my life without the constant worry of medical bills.  What the hell would I worry about?  Would I worry about my hair getting gray?  My children not knowing a second language?  GMOs? 
Back to reality where I am not concerned about GMOs or my hair going gray.   We will get through this round.  We will scrimp, juggle, and carry on. We will see F improve and be so proud of him and know that it is all worth it.  We will hope that when he is a parent he won't have the same struggles we have.

Thursday, March 23, 2017

Appalachian Trail Fever

It started simply.  My friend Crystal asked if I wanted to go backpacking with her in the Smokies to Icewater Springs Shelter on the Appalachian Trail (AT).  She has been working on section hiking the AT for years and it only took that one relatively short overnighter for me to catch the fever.    There is something so fascinating and almost magical about the AT.  In our day and age of high speed connectivity, jets that can transport us to the other side of the planet in hours, access to trains and automobiles to get us from point A to B with very little effort; the AT stirs something primal in me.   There is a unique feeling knowing that you are on a footpath that goes for 2,190 miles.  You can literally walk one foot in front of the other from Georgia to Maine if you put in the effort and time.  It is far from an easy walk in the park but the hard work and reward are all part of the appeal. 
And the beauty - the trees, the birds, the sunrises, the sunsets, the mountain streams, the salamanders, the bears, the rocky outcroppings, and the vistas that remind you how small we are and how vast our gorgeous earth is.  All of this coupled with the physical effort of hiking up and down mountains puts my body and mind into a peaceful state that I just can't achieve in my everyday life.   Or maybe it is the fact while hiking I am not being pulled in a million directions, answering to the never ending "Mom! Mom! Mom!" I don't feel the weight of the dishes, the piled up laundry, the spelling words that need to be practiced, the work data that needs to be entered, the presentation that I have coming up that I haven't looked at yet, and the constant juggle of therapy and medical bills and the aging cars.  While hiking up mountains carrying everything I need to live on my back I feel lighter and FREE.  I smile a lot.  I listen to the birds singing and feel the cool mountain breezes on my sweaty arms.   I feel blood pumping through my body and I reminded of how damn good it is to be alive and be LIVING.
Since I caught that fever back in August 2015 I have tried to "sneak" in as many hikes on the AT as possible.  It is very difficult to add anything to the already bursting at the seams life of parenting two young kids and working a full time crazy, traveling job.  But if I have learned anything the last few years as a working parent it is "WE CAN DO HARD THINGS." I typically get my fix with a hike and I feel content and happy for a bit.  But then the fever starts building and I find myself dreaming of being back on the trail.  I start thinking through scenarios of where and when I can get my next fix.  I start asking my friends when they might be free for a hike.  I start getting my AT guidebook out at night and looking at potential sections I could hike in a day, two days, three weeks, three months. And then when the stars align and I get something scheduled the excitement really builds. I then start planning the shuttle, the mileage I hope to get each day, the landmarks along the way, the elevation gains and losses. 

Crystal and I are heading out in a few days for our next section.  We are going to climb the two highest peaks in Virginia, Whitetop Mountain (5080 ft) and Mt. Rogers (5,729 ft).  We have our shuttle scheduled and I have been calculating the mileage and eying the elevation gain with nervous anticipation.  I am working on prehydrating my body and eating good healthy proteins so I feel as good as possible.  When you are miles from the nearest road or even cell phone signal you want to be in the best physical condition you can be!   I can't wait to be out there even though I know I will have moments of "why the hell did I think this was a good idea?"  But I also know that the moments of freedom, peace, solitude, beauty, and accomplishment will outweigh the frustration.  The mountains are calling and I cant' wait to go!